Don’t Like Your Bridesmaid Dresses, Wear or Not?
If you don’t like the bridesmaid dress bride picked for you, what should you do?
You don’t like the dress maybe the following reason:
- The dress is not your style, you are chubby girl, the bridesmaid dress is high neck, which style you should avoiding; or you are not tall, you don’t like long bridesmaid dress with natural waist, not empire waist;
Mint Long Bridesmaid Dresses KSP171/ Navy Blue Strapless Bridesmaid Dresses Long KSP337
- For some medical reason, include insulin pumps, a scar carried on arm, etc, the bridesmaid dress picked by bride not compatible with you;
- The bridesmaid dresses go against some part of your religion, ankles show, low neckline, open back, etc.
- You cannot afford the bridesmaid dress. Most bridesmaid dresses cost more than $100, usually at price $100-$150, it is expensive for dress we may just worn once;
If you don’t like the dress in the reason of the style, or for some medical reason, talk to the bride to confirm if you can have accommodation, change the neckline, add sleeves, extra shawls or find a similar one; if she is OK, then problem solved, but if she don’t agree, there probably some reason, wear the dress gladly, it is her big day; or change your role from bridesmaid to wedding guest;
Religion reason, talk to the bride directly, she can understand; ask to have an alternation, or say sorry you can’t be the bridesmaids, you need a different role for the wedding that allow more flexibility in dressing;
For the price reason, ask bride to select other dress less expensive or help pay part for your bridesmaid dress.
Being asked to be bridesmaid in a wedding means something, you are not only act as witness of their union together with other closest friends and family but also to provide support for the newly couple, support their decision to come together for the rest of their lives, not a wedding cake, wedding music, dinner party or flower decoration. It’s not about a dress too.
Generally speaking if she is a good friend, she will have already picked something that works well, but this may be a case where you do not participate as an attendant. So participate in the process and discussion to choose bridesmaid dresses as far as possible. Tell bride what you like, don’t like honestly; it’s her big day, you can beautiful and charming too. And mismatching bridesmaid dresses is the best solution of these problems.
Dark Navy V-neck Short Bridesmaid Dress KSP175/ Long Blue Bridesmaid Dress V-neck KSP177
If unfortunately. Bride picked bridesmaid dresses out already, and it’s her big day so it’s best to just swallow your pride and wear the dress and smile the day through. Get in touch with why you have been asked to be in her wedding, think about it, you will finish bridesmaid’s job well.
Of course you can refuse to wear it, if you don’t think you’re good friends and not want to be good friends any more. You maybe move you from bridesmaids to guest even out of the wedding party.
Relax, in my opinion, bride pocked the dresses because she likes them, just convey what you feel and accept your inability to wear the bridesmaid dress to make her special day the best it can be.
